Monday, February 25, 2013

#Ozzy

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I'm starting to embrace my hair along with all its craziness.
It has its own personality & I love it.
IMPORTANT:
"If you can learn to love yourself and all the flaws, you can love other people so much better. And that makes you so happy."


p.s. it's almost Spring! Yay! *does cartwheel*
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I hope everyone has a great spring break!

xoxo,
Jayy

Friday, February 15, 2013

Naturally Beautiful.







Pictures above from MyBigNaturalAfro.tumblr.com

XOXO,
A girl learning to embrace her 'fro,
Jayy

Thursday, February 7, 2013

Church of Fashion.

Faith and Fashion: students discuss trends
The Point Weekly 
Published: February 4, 2013



The iconic cross is now a popular fashion trend and is displayed on everything from clothing, to jewelry, to studded phone cases. The blinged-out cross isn’t a totally new idea though; Madonna, anyone? But, do the consumers believe that there is a separation of church and style?
Department stores like Forever 21 have the trend all throughout their stores. F21’s founders of the affordable fashion-forward store, the Chong family, are devoted Christians according to Business Weekly. Yet, they have been criticized in the media for “Christian Propaganda” and sometimes forcing the issue with their “Jesus Loves Me” shirts and accessories.
Even on the bottom of Forever 21’s signature yellow bags, it states “John 3:16” referring to the famous Bible verse.
Rachel Kane, from the website WTForever21.com, states that Forever 21 is selling its religion.  Amongst the flashy crosses and Jesus praise throughout the store, she describes her experience as “Welcome to the Sunday morning service you did not sign-up for.”
According to a sales manager at Fashion Valley Mall’s Forever 21, I’m reading too much into this. She says that consumers can separate a fashion cross and a religion one easily. She thinks buyers are going for more of the grunge slash punk-rock look.
The cross medallion, lace, and heavy black eyeliner look has become trendy since the Versace Fall/ Winter show in 2012. Forever 21’s designs are inspired from runway shows as stated in their blog.
The manager, who wanted to remain anonymous, stated that the cross trend in their store has no direct correlation between the founders being devoted Christians, “It’s just the trends’ new frontier. I don’t see people buying it as a religion statement.”
As for students here at PLNU, the cross trend is a mixture of both their fashion taste and freely expressing their faith.
Student Avalon Pellegrini, a self-proclaimed jewelry lover, says that when people look down at the jewelry she’s wearing, she wants them to see that she knows Jesus.
Pellegrini bought her favorite cross ring five years ago, before the trend became popular. It is now her purity ring. She also has two cross necklaces that she owns; she says she wears them to show her faith but also to show her fashion sense.
Pellegrini admitted that she felt bothered that the cross design is being compared to other trendy patterns such as stripes or floral print, “I don’t want the cross to be seen as a fabric; it’s so much more than that…I want it to actually mean something to people instead of just being on a rack.”
Sophomore Riley Fields was first against the cross fad, but ended-up finding it cute. “I know the story behind the cross, so if ever confronted I would know what to say…As Christians, if we are so strong in our faith, we shouldn’t be disturbed by what other people are wearing.”
Fields adds that she doesn’t see herself wearing the cross as trendy or religious; she feels that she is merely expressing herself and it coincidentally is in style right now. As fashion goes, she says, the fad will pass.
Student Chelsie Oren accessorizes her outfit with a black and white cross-pattern scarf. “I like that I can support my faith outwardly in my clothes,” Oren said. She continues to say that if she wanted to buy a scarf, and it just so happen to have crosses on it, it would be an added bonus.
When asked about Forever 21’s alleged “Christian Propaganda”, Oren said, “I don’t think it’s good to commercialize Christianity just to sell clothes—or to sell anything.” She went on to say that merely getting the word of God and the symbol of the cross in people’s heart somehow is a great thing within itself.


Saturday, January 12, 2013

Dream. Aspire. Be YOU.

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Lying down in my plush bed in the pitch-black dark—thinking. Gazing above at the glow-in-the-dark stars that are randomly placed on my ceiling, I begin to wonder what is one word that describes this complicated 18-year old girl; one word that describes Jordan Ailene Ligons to the “T” which can also sum up the multiple personalities that are bottled inside. An epithet that is detailed enough to capture the true essence of me. Think. Think. Think. Numerous words come to mind: different, imperfect, confident, unique, stylish, and even happy. However, none jump out at me or fully explain the young woman I am today; none confess the energy that I put forth to make me, me. Then, finally, it hit me like a ton of bricks. “Maybe I don’t have a word just yet,” I whispered aloud. My puppy stared at me in confusion, “Maybe I haven’t found it yet.” I’m not even close to the person that I aspire to become. I continue on this journey day to day not knowing what the future holds but in search for something— something that will make this wait worthwhile. I am a young woman in search for my word.

This word that I’m in search for won’t necessarily have to be the fanciest word that is in the dictionary. This word can be three letters long or thirty letters short. This word will make me smile and have the feeling of accomplishment come over me. I simply don’t know where this special word for me is hiding and I shall not know until I find it; the journey will take as long as needed. Yes, we can all Google search “describing words” and wait anxiously to see which ones pop-up as we nod our heads in agreement and yell, “Oh yea! That is totally me!” Or maybe we can let life happen and let the epithet naturally find its way in reaching us.

The journey continues…
XOXO,
Jayy
[Photo Creds: Riley Fields]

Thursday, January 10, 2013

New Year, Same Me.

"In the end, we are our choices. Build yourself a great story."





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This is only the beginning of great things ahead... & I'm beyond excited.


Bring it on 2013,
Xoxo
Jayy

Monday, December 3, 2012

The Truth About Style


Today, I fell in love with an excerpt from Stacy London's, co-host of TLC's What Not to Wear , new book The Truth About Style!
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~First, consider the principle "accept what you've been given"--the "yes" part of the equation. "Yes," where style is concerned, is an unbiased, dispassionate acceptance of who you are, where your body is right now (today, not next week, after a crash diet), and what your life circumstances are. You must accept the good, the bad, and the ugly, without prejudice. "Notice, don't judge," as my sister Jaclyn once told me attribution, sister, see?). You must get to a Zen place about the raw material you have to work with, to be able to say, "I love my back, hate my ass, I'm old, I have limited resources, and that's okay." Acceptance means knowing when your pants are too tight. It means not wearing your favorite dress when the armholes squish your chest into your armpits. When I say "accept," I mean accept: No more judgment, just pure dispassionate observation. The "yes" is absolutely essential to style. If you deny the reality of your body or your life, you'll never be able to dress any of it well--even the parts you love. You have to see it all to work with any of it.
Ignoring a problem (or a "problem area") doesn't solve it. Trust me when I say I've tried that route many, many times. The only way to deal with a style problem is to confront it and attack it head-on. This is the "and" part of the equation, the best part of it. "Yes" is acceptance; "and" is advancing to the next step. "And" is coming up with a passionate strategy to emphasize what you love about yourself and to de-emphasize what you don't. Don't ignore your least favorite areas or try to hide them. Hiding implies a shame about ourselves. Even when you don't like something, you can accept it and "consciously camouflage" (trademark pending) it instead. Go up a size or three to look great in your pants. Strategize your spending budget. Part of "and" is using style as a tool to help create the image you want to put out in the world that tells others how you want to be treated. It can also help you foster self-esteem you didn’t know you could have.
For fashion-book clichés like "the must-have trench for spring" or "three ways to rock a poncho," you'll have to go somewhere else. Let's be honest: If "how to" advice were that useful, you'd all be dressing well and I'd be out of a job. The "how to" approach is about changing your look. From years of working with women, I've discovered that that is only part of what they're really after. For that reason, my book doesn't only deal with how to dress well, and why you should, but it examines why you don't. We all put obstacles in our own path toward personal style, myself included. If we understood why we constructed these practical and emotional obstacles, we might move beyond them to healthier, happier perceptions of ourselves and, ideally, a better sense of self-esteem. Style can change your look, certainly, but it can also change your life.- Stacy London



oh, and btw:

xoxo,
Jayy.

Sunday, December 2, 2012

Can you be my motivation?


Does that even make sense? I have never felt like this before in my life. I'm always so motivated, so driven. But now, I'm in a funk and I don't know how to get out.
I'm just thinking to the times when I tried SO hard at somethings and they didn't turned out how I wanted them to, "So why try again? Why force it?" My thoughts race.
This current mindset is holding me back from reaching extraordinary measures in numerous aspects of my life.
Maybe it's the gloomy weather. Maybe it's because I haven't been to the beach in awhile. Maybe it's because I'm still recovering from heartbreak. Hell, it could be a million of "maybes" but in the end, I just need to feel inspired.
How do you re-inspire yourself? I'm currently trying:
+Tumblr
+Reading Biographies of successful women
+Thinking of how much I've accomplished so far
+Remembering all the motivation I had to get where I am today
+Breathing
+Listening to this:

+Watching this:


I'll let you know if these work...
xoxo,
Jayy